Truth: I do not have to live in bondage to my memories
Truth: Sex and intimacy are not bad
Truth: God created sex and it is good
Truth: I am not responsible for being molested, assaulted, or raped
Honorable: Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled- Heb. 13:4
Honorable: Gracious women are to be honored – Prov. 11:16
Honorable: Giving preference to another – Rom 12:10
Honorable: I am to posses my body with honor- 1 Thess. 4:4
Honorable: Strength and honor are a trait of an excellent woman
Right/Righteousness: God’s precepts are right – Ps 19:8
Right/Righteousness: I am to speak righteous things- Prov. 8:6
Right/Righteousness: Speaking truth is right – Prov 12:17
Right/Righteousness: God vindicates the righteous Ps 7:8, 9b
Right/Righteousness: God rewards me according to righteousness – Ps 18:20
Purity: The Lord’s Words are pure- Ps 12:6
Purity: I am not impure for having sexual desires
Purity: The desire I have for my husband is pure
Purity: I am to be sensible and pure- Titus 2:5
Purity: Sex with my husband is pure and good and God blesses it.
Purity: I am to be an example in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity of those who believe.
Purity: Being molested or assaulted does not make me impure.
Lovely: meditate on any attribute of Jesus
Lovely: In Song of Solomon, the lovers are referred to as being pure, even in their physical desire for one another
Lovely: God views intimacy in marriage as a lovely thing
Good report: My husband appreciates when I tell him he pleases me sexually.
Good report: My husband wants to know I desire him
Good report: My husband wants me to tell him what pleases me
Good report: It is good for me to tell him I had a good time
This is not complete, but at least it is a place to start renewing your mind.
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